january felt like forever, and i barely made it out in one piece. the summer has been too hot — my horrific sunburn being proof of that, and everything was moving so slow. i usually prefer slowness, but this felt different. more stagnant than gentle or peaceful. as the month came closer to the end i started getting more and more excited for what really matters, Valentine’s Day.
as a true-blooded romantic, Valentine’s Day is my superbowl. it is a holiday that i celebrate all month long. i thrive when love is everywhere. an excuse to wear reds, hearts and cute lingerie? an opportunity to make my loved ones feel even more loved? a reminder of the love around us and the beauty of love? count me in 100x!!
i’m not sure what i’ll be doing yet (awkwardly awaiting an invite from the guy i’m sorta seeing….) but i know regardless the day will be spent well. perhaps a movie marathon of all my valentines favourites, or maybe i’ll spend the day baking treats for my loved ones. who knows!! i do know that if i spend valentines at home, my uniform will be my cou cou intimates cherry red pointelle set (do i ever shut up about this brand? no) and some soft loungewear. maybe my nymphomaniac t shirt and brandy meville shorts……
the 2025 valentines vibe
red satin
antique lace
victorian puzzle purses
psychosexual media
vintage & antique valentines cards and motifs
medieval art
soft lingerie
engraved pendants
baking for your loved ones
vintage photo booths (and carry the photo strip around with you)
turkish delights
holding your lovers arm
handwritten notes
soft pointelle
vintage avon perfume bottles
musky fragrances
i posted these on in my notes and on my tiktok, but i’ll leave them here too!!
plus some small additions:
daisy lia ivie thong (I loveeee the shape/style of these)
july rose heirloom double-sided pendant
i love you doily
1940s & 50s valentines cards
prada heart kitten heels
cou cou intimates butterfly thong
eric rohmer six moral tales dvd box set
nananita crochet tote
cou cou intimates lover brief
moonkissed collective romantic material shorts
pink mason pearson bristle & nylon hairbrush
media to consume (devour)
babygirl 2024
secretary 2002
buffalo ‘66 1998
love in the afternoon 1972
bonnie and clyde 1967
phantom thread 2017
jane eyre 2011
henry & june 1990
nosferatu 2024
wild at heart 1990
rest energy 1980
bones and all 2022
roman holiday 1953
delta of venus by anais nin
love poems by anne sexton
a spy in the house of love by anais nin
letters to milena by franz kafka
madonna in a fur coat by sabahattin ali
lady chatterley’s lover by d.h lawrence
simple passion by annie ernaux
the erotic poems by ovid
and so i leave you with this, my spotify playlist of love songs 🫀
happy valentines day & happy february!!
tell me about your valentine’s day plans & traditions!!
lot’s of love,
kayley <3
and p.s — as always, if you have any post requests or suggestions i am all ears!! i have no idea what to post on here!!